Wednesday, January 30, 2013

Freewrite - I believe all people lie


I think that House was right, all people lie.  I don’t think they want to but it just happens.  We all do it even when we should tell the truth.  Like when a doctor asked personal questions about health history we lie.  We lie about how much we eat, drink, or even if we have ever done drugs.  So if we lie to people who are only there to help us of course we are going to lie to the people we love too.  I know I lie.  I don’t want to sometimes but it’s just easier to tell someone your fine then go into details about how hard your life is.  Most of the time they are only asking for polite conversation not that they really care how you are doing.  Omission is still a lie.  Some people like to feel better about themselves because they feel not telling the truth or partially telling the truth is still okay.  Kinda goes back to the doctor scenario.  Sure doc I have a drink every once in a while, in truth that person may not be able to get out of bed in the morning without a drink.  Testing doesn’t lie.  That person’s liver could be failing and saying they don’t have a problem doesn’t take away the truth.  I can handle some lies from people I love.  It’s the lies that they can’t even look me in the eyes and get away with.  I know I would like to say I’m strong enough to call people on their bullshit but sometimes in moments of weakness I let them lie.  Sometimes I needed to believe there lies to make it through the day.  Sad but true.  Lies hurt people.  I would hope that most people wouldn’t want to cause that much pain to another person.  It’s the sociopaths that just don’t care about others that are scary.  I know a child like that.  Not mine thank god.  But I feel sorry for this little girl who doesn’t care about anyone she hurts to get what she wants.  It would make a nun swear and make the sign of the cross. 

359 words

I believe


1.       I believe I’m a good mom.

2.       I believe that most people are good at heart.

3.       I believe all people lie.

4.       I believe in aliens.

5.       I believe in a higher power.

6.       I believe that some classes are a waste of time and money. 

7.       I believe we should all try to make ours and others lives easier.

8.       I believe in choices.

9.       I believe strawberry cheesecake can solve anything.

10.   I believe history repeats itself and we never learn from it.

11.   I believe the best movies come from a great book.

12.   I believe all you need is love.

13.   I believe that the world is a good place.

14.   I believe bad people go to hell.

15.   I believe that we take people from granted.

16.   I believe that a sunny day is better than a cloudy one.

17.   I believe the glass is both half empty and half full.

18.   I believe everyone is equal.

19.   I believe kids shouldn’t stop believing in Santa.

20.   I believe there is life on other planets.

21.   I believe that people can be stupid.

22.   I believe you should give flowers as a gift, even though they die.

23.   I believe music should move you. 

24.   I believe in an inner monologue.

25.   I believe in standing out.

26.   I believe in being strong.

27.   I believe in bettering yourself.

28.   I believe everyone needs help.

Saturday, January 26, 2013

Jung Typology test

Taking online personality quizzes can get a little out there.  The Jung Typology quiz was fairly insightful.  Some points were pretty spot on about me; others were just lots of airy words. My favorite part was the people like me list included Mother Teresa of Calcutta.  Who wouldn’t be a little flattered to on the same list?  What’s funny is my quiz actually said writing would be in my niche.  I’m not quite sure if I would agree with that part.  It does go on to say that my personality type is a champion of the oppressed and down trodden.  Maybe that means I’m better suited to write for a cause then for enjoyment.  It says people like me are generally “idealist” which I would have to disagree.  For me, I’m much more a realist at heart.  That maybe because of years in the real world turned me from an idealist to a realist.  The parts of the quiz that are more like me really aren’t very helpful for writing.  My type apparently is well suited for Psychology and counseling work.  Well, I’m going to be a registered nurse someday so having a personality that can understand people will help me greatly.   If I was just taking this test to find something insightful about me as a writer, it missed the mark.